What is Havening and How Could it Help you Change Your Life?

By Susanna Sweeney, MSc, MBACP, CHT

This article on  Havening Techniques® is the first in a series of articles that aims to introduce you to this novel psychosensory technique.  Let's start off here by comparing Havening to talk thereapy in my chat with my colleague Louise McKay.

The article includes interviews with experienced Havening practitioners and  the founders of this modality, brothers Dr. Ronald and Dr. Steven Ruden which are linked to further below.

These interviews reveal the fascinating story of how Havening came to be, as well as testimonials about how effective an intervention this method is. 

The series also contains an article on how you can support yourself at home with self havening, interviews with trainers in the method and much more. But let's start with the basics.

haveningDr. Ronald Ruden quote on the power of Havening.

What is Havening?

Havening belongs in the realm of psychosensory healing modalities, alongside EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation  and Reprocessing), TFT (Thought Field Tapping) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). All of these are techniques use simple interventions like tapping, eye movement and touch in order to make changes to emotions and thought patterns.

The processes used in Havening are based research findings in the realm of neuroscience. The founders of Havening, brothers Dr. Ron and Dr. Steven Ruden studied this field for many years until they found an answer as to how traumatic memory is encoded in the brain. This gave them clues as to how traumatic memory, which is usually deemed to be permanently installed in the brain- can be decoded.

The interventions used look surprisingly simple. Havening uses simple touch applied to arms, hands and face. This touch, via touch receptors in your skin produces delta brain waves which relax your body and mind and allow your subconscious mind to safely bring forward any issues it is ready to heal. 

With Havening, this healing process is called 'depotentiation'  which refers to traumatically activated receptors on the amygdala being 'depotentiated' or in other words, physically  dismantled. Once these receptors are being dismantled, the emotional connection to the issue or memory will become less and will eventually disappear altogether.

This process can be surprisingly fast- often one session can bring dramatic relief. Sometimes this change can take place in minutes. The client's experience usually is that the work is easy to do, feels safe, effortless and pain free. This is because the delta waves produced by touch have such a relaxing and grounding effect which is helped also by the compassionate presence of the practitioner.

How Could Havening Help You?

If you suffer from anxiety, depression, toxic emotions, any fears or phobias, unresolved grief, the symptoms of PTSD, chronic pain, any other disturbing symptoms, or if you simply feel stuck in life and want to reach your full potential- Havening can help you through this rough patch so that you can improve your quality of life and build resilience.

Havening blends well with most modalities or therapies because it is so straightforward, flexible and simple to integrate into most other protocols. Many practitioners combine it with NLP, psychotherapy or alternative therapies. In our bespoke one to one clinic we use Havening Techniques combined with hypnosis. This powerful blend results in extra benefit for your subconscious mind.

haveningDr. Ruden on the miracles he has observed during some 40,000 Havening sessions he has performed so far

What if You Don't Want to Talk About Your Issues?

The pressure to talk is a major obstacle for people accessing help to overcome trauma.

Talking about emotional and traumatic issues can be hard:

Many people impacted by trauma find it hard to find the words to describe what happens, or else find the emotions associated with the trauma become too overwhelming once they barely start talking at all. For others yet, there can be overwhelming shame and anxiety that stops them from ever talking about their trauma to anyone. 

The beauty of working with Havening is that traumatic incidents can be completely depotentiated without you having to give much detail at all. As long as the practitioner has a rough idea of the realm you are working in he or she can guide you safely through the process.

Some practitioners even work entirely content free and don't require you to share anything about the trauma you are working on.

For me, as someone who has worked in the trauma field for over twenty years, it was this ability of Havening Techniques to dismantle the symptoms of trauma safely, without any sense of overwhelm and without any pressure to talk- that strongly drew me to this modality. 

Havening sessions and their outcomes can often look like a 'miracle'- and indeed they often are for the client who is suffering and has tried many other approaches and modalities to no avail when they finally find relief with Havening treatments.

The Benefits of Working With Havening in a Nutshell

  • Enables you to clear a vast range of issues both emotional and physical.
  • Keep your privacy- no need to talk about your material in any great detail.
  • Fast, reliable and effective in clearing issues.
  • Achieves permanent change.
  • Combines well with other methods which means that as well as from Havening, you can benefit from any and all approaches your chosen practitioner uses 

Is There any Reason You Should not Work With Havening?

It's always a good idea to discuss any concerns and your particular situation with your chosen Havening practitioner before you start.  The practitioner will want to know what medications you are currently taking (if any), and they will do a detailed history taking with you. 

In most situations Havening will be suitable to use. Like any other therapy or form of treatment, it is not a cure-all, but is often able to provide at least some improvement or relief in situations where you cannot work with other modalities or where other modalities have failed.

Other Articles on Havening

Havening Techniques- Interviews with the Founding Fathers

Meet Dr. Ron and Dr. Steve Ruden, founders of the Havening Techniques®, who- in two indepth interviews,disclose the fascinating story of how this cutting edge psychosensory modality was developed.

Self Havening- How to use this Powerful Self help Tool for Best Benefit

Find out how Self Havening could help you change your life for the better , and learn how to use it the right way so that you can get maximum benefit.

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I hope you have found this brief article useful in helping you understand more about Havening. Will you give this novel treatment a go? Let our community know in the comments underneath.


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